Too many a time we let ourselves become belittled because of others’ achievements and success. We compare our case with theirs and feel jealous. Is there any good out of this other than stress and mental torture? it’s time to change your thoughts and look at others from another perspective.
Try to look at others from a different angle. Feel happy for them and ask them for some tips on their great success in endeavors. Make some genuine compliments so that they are ready to share their secrets.
The bottom line is the fact that if they can do it, you can do it as well. It will just take a little time. You will begin to feel inspired and take necessary steps.
Things like a new wardrobe of smart clothes, preparation of daily actions and listing them down, investing yourself perhaps in personal development and above all, gaining greater expertise in your field of niche are all going to help you climb the ladder of success. Constantly network with friends and colleagues and join relevant online communities and discuss issues that are still vague and opaque to you. You will see that through interactions, your zenith of knowledge becomes higher and higher.
You know you are doing everything you can to impart knowledge to others and gain too. In fact you are gradually hitting the peak of the ladder of success. Now people will be reaching out to you to know your secrets.
Life is meant to be like that. Next time you meet a much more successful person than you, stop yourself from being jealous and compete unnecessarily with him/her. Instead smile, shake hands and start a genuine conversation so that they gladly reveal their secrets.
Take good advantage of them and naturally soar to even greater heights.